Hi, I’m Jessica Reid. cALL ME JAE.
I was in my 40’s and had no idea what I was doing with my life. Seems a little late to start something new, or maybe it was perfect. I had a passion, finding healing.
Prioritizing my mental health and seeing the value reflected in my life in the form of peace and joy. I want to help others, pass on the passion to come out of anxiety and depression, and into something life-giving. Translating this into life work meant education. Getting a master’s degree in psychology to understand all the facets of schooling. I went to a Christian University, as incorporating God, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit were of the highest importance to me.
areas to focus on:
Phone usage addiction & creates overload and drains
Frustrated attitude and anger
Anxiety and fear over small or large things
Overload as a Parent/Mom demands on life
Body image pressure to create identity/value
ADHD, ODD (oppositional defiant disorder)
Shame and guilt, thoughts of regret
Church Hurt - expect love, as God is love
Rape, sexual abuse
REALMS Impacted by Mental and Emotional Wellness:
Self-Esteem
Work culture
Sports arenas
Family relationships
Church connections, culture
THEMES run steady in Life:
Expectations - expect from people and disappointment arises
Vulnerability - Willing to be vulnerable and have strength
Shame - Understand where it presents
Belonging - Out of Isolation
Psychology Theories, we will walk through their application to you personally and their relevance to healing. Here are the Theories we will walk through:
VYGOTSKY’S THEORIES:
Culture and social influences on our cognitive functioning. Have these aided or hindered?
ALLPORT THEORIES:
Personality, Cardinal, central, and secondary traits.
DESCARTES THEORIES:
The mind creates doubt, thinking, and debating, and how the body responds to the mind.
BROCA THEORIES:
The brain functions relating to our abilities.
JAMES & THORNDIKE THEORIES:
Habits are ruts formed in the brain to create the same action to occur repeatedly. Emotions are a response to sensations, connected to habitual functioning. Selective consciousness.
PAVLOV THEORY:
Unconditioned and conditioned stimulus creates responses in us in relationships, or behavioral actions.
WATSON THEORY:
How to create an emotional response to your view.
MASLOW’S HIERARCHY:
Seeking self-actualization, where is safety and security in relation to all areas of living?
SKINNER THEORIES:
When conditioning and reinforcing behaviors we have formed, we need to acknowledge these to break these behavioral habits.
JUNG THEORIES:
What is your self-perception? Is it what is perceived by others’ view of you, or do you view yourself as your actual self? How are you energized, intra or extra?
HORNEY THEORIES:
Anxiety, did parents attribute to it, is it a defense mechanism? Has it now become ingrained as part of personality? The goal is secure, tolerant, loving, and respectful relationships.
PIAGET’S LEARNING:
We learn through pieces of information called schema, attaching them together to form the views we have (positive or negative) called assimilation. Can we change this schema?
BANDURA’S THEORY:
We learn from others’ behavior. Children learn from their parents/adults, coworkers learn from other coworkers or leadership. Someone establishes the behavior, but that doesn’t mean that it is the correct behavior. Can we change it from a negative behavior to a positive?